WORDS OF THE DAY (Deal with the personal's struggles)
"I know it's hard to feel, but I'm sure you can pass through this struggles" Actually, we don't know how it feels to be the other person. Although, whether consciously or unconsciously, we ever say the sentence in quotation above to the other person whenever they tell us about their personal experiences. The fact is we, as the listener, just trying to give our emphatic feeling to the speaker that is aimed to help them lighten their problems by listening and giving both some advices and suggestions. Another thing that needs to be pointed up here is we can't give the speaker some "toxic positivity" sentences because it will make them to be more sad than before. For example : "why you can't do it? It just simple, isn't it?". So, think first before you speak and make sure that your words aren't hurting the others. Peace out ✌🏻